MEDHELP 翻译 NO.16（4周以前在男同性恋酒吧遇到一个男人）

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Hi, thank you for this forum.
I met a guy in a gay bar 4 weeks ago (in Ireland). I am in long term relationship with a female so am also suffering from guilt.
With the guy, we gave each other hand jobs, I finished off cuming in his mouth, we were kissing throughout. I tend to chew my mouth so can have open cuts so am very concerned after reading some sites that this could be risky.
Within a week I was feeling very low and tired. weeks two, three and four i have had aching joints and muscle spasms. Yesterday i noticed a rash on my neck and have been feeling sick constantly.
I am reading lots of conflicting reports online which makes me more anxious. I think of my symptoms and possible HIV exposure every waking minute and cannot concentrate on anything. I am trying to convince myself these symptoms could also be anxieity.
you opinion would be greatly received.
您好，感谢开设这个论坛。
我4周以前在男同性恋酒吧遇到一个男人。我和一个女性在一起很久了，所以我感到很愧疚。
和这个男人，我们相互给对方手Y，我射在了他的嘴里，我们自始至终都在接吻。我咬了自己的嘴，所以有伤口，我在读了网上的资料以后感觉很担心，因为资料说这可能感染。
在一周里，我感觉很疲惫。第二周，我有关节痛和肌肉痉挛。昨天，我发现我的脖子上有皮疹而且我感觉自己一直不舒服。
我在网上读了很多观点矛盾的文章，这让我更加焦虑了。我每分每秒都在在想我的症状，和感染HIV的几率。我没法集中精神在任何事上。我在试图说服我自己我的症状和焦虑有关。
我很希望得到您的意见。

医生：
Hello,
Thank you very much for your post and welcome to our forum.
You really need to relax. I think all your symptoms are related to a combination of stress, anxiety and possibly guilt. They have nothing to do with HIV.
Your sexual encounter did not involve any HIV risk for you at all whatsoever. No risk in kissing, no riks in hanjobs, no riks in receiving oralsex. If any, the risk would have been to the man who performed the oral sex on you as you ejaculated inside of his mouth, an not to you, and even so that ris is negligible, mostly theoretical. Therefore there is no need for you to worry about HIV or to get tested for it. The only justificication for you to get tested would be to deal with your anxiety and guilt, and not on medical grounds.
Best wishes,
Dr José
您好，
感谢您的上传，欢迎来到论坛。
您真的需要放松下来。我觉得您的所有症状都和您的压力，焦虑和罪恶感有关。它们和HIV无关。您的行为没有任何感染HIV的风险。接吻没有风险，手Y没有风险，被动KJ没有风险。如果有的话，为您进行KJ的仁有些风险，因为您射J在他的口中，您没有风险。即便是这样，为您KJ的人的风险也是很低的，只是理论上的风险。因此，您不需要担心HIV，也不需要测试HIV。如果要测试的话也是为了平复您的焦虑和罪恶感，而不是因为医疗的理由。
祝好